Negative can be positive sometimes

Early this morning we went to the hospital to get the result of Dj's medical findings. I was scared a bit of the result. I took a bath early and so was DJ. When I think of the result it leave me a short of breath. My heart keeps on pounding like it was going to explode. I whisper to GOD that the result would be negative. Its not that easy to deal with this kind of problem especially if DJ's involved.

My husband took a sample of DJ's stool the other day and rushed immediately to the laboratory because it has a time limit of 30mins. And so there was, we waited for two hours for the result. And decided to get the result early this morning. As we enter into the hospital, I realized that every bed is like a parked taxi with the meter running. That is no place to be sick.

As I enter the laboratory, the lady gave me the result. It was a blue folded paper. I Unfolded the blue paper and read each word at a time. I was happy by the word "NEGATIVE" for the first time in my life. Sometimes in our lives we need to appreciate that word because its not so bad after all. Negative can be positive sometimes.

I was relieved and happy with the result. Dj is negative with amoebiasis after all. I was a mom floating with joy and happiness. So there I was, smiling like there was no tomorrow. The word "NEGATIVE" really made my day.

Biggest Fanatic

It was year 2001 when Nicolodeon first aired spongebob squarepants. Yes, spongebob just turned ten years older last year. And it was that year also when I Became interested to watch the cartoon. I like the idea of every episode because for me its not a typical cartoon. Every character is unique. Especially spongebob and his pineapple house. Imagine a pineapple under the sea?
I have already watched it a hundred times already. I have spongebob collectibles that my husband bought. He bought all of my collectibles because he knows how much I love spongebob. He also loves to watch it. Actually, we both love to watch it. He downloaded all the complete episodes of spongebob and even bought the CD's. Its my all time favorite cartoon and Im still waiting for a new episode this year.
And one more thing, I wish I have all of these...

Grrr...


My eyes just turned green when I saw this...
This would definitely light up my day...

I know I'm not a fan of sneakers except for this one... I would love to wear this everywhere.

C to the O Z Y...


I'm green with envy again... (huhuhu)


If I were made to choose for a diamond ring and this one, it would be foolish not to choose this... I'm dying to have this!

Laughter the best medicine

It was a lazy afternoon when me and Dj had nothing to do...and so I played with him. He laughed so hard that I took some of his pictures. It was fun being with him. Its a big thrill when I hear him laugh. His laugh sure made my day complete.

Every positive reactions to his cute peals of laughter will let him know that he is truly making a joyful noise. Every time Im making funny faces, he will just laugh at me the whole time. His all time favorite game is "peekaboo",where I disappear and reappear (by surprise).

Just set aside all your inhibitions and play with him. Think of any games that your baby will like to play. This will definitely brighten up both your days. When your baby starts giggling you cant resist giggling with him too. There's nothing makes parents smile than the sound of their baby's laugh.

All smiles! Everyone loves to see a baby's laughter.

Dj and his stomach

We just got back from the doctor this afternoon to thoroughly examine Dj's condition. It has been 3 days since he vomited and had a terrible diarrhea. We didn't know what are the causes of his condition until his doctor said that it might be from the things that he put in his mouth recently. Dj just got his first teeth and has been putting things in his mouth and start rubbing it in his teeth.

The doctor prescribed medicine to help support Dj's condition. She said to examine Dj's stool to know if its amoebiasis. Antibiotics has not been prescribed yet until further result of his stool. We've been wandering from one pharmacy to another to find the said prescribed medicine. Unfortunately, we didnt get the chance to find his vitamins. But the two of the most important medicine were bought.

We need to go to the laboratory tomorrow to thoroughly examine his stool if its the case of amoebiasis. And I hope not. I hope that he will be better soon. As a mother, seeing your baby suffer from this condition is truly heartbreaking.

You will be better Dj, nana, tata, mamala, and papalo are here for you no matter what. And most especially Papa Jesus.

Truth about online gaming addiction

Online games these days are abundant. It has becoming an addiction among innocent young people. And not only young ones even adults. The problem is not restricted to young people and we all know that also parents are hooked on these things.

I want to share this article because I myself have a loving husband who happens to love or became hooked to online gaming. Yes, he is 27 years old and loves to play online games. I have tried it a couple of times but was bored except for farmville and farmtown...I know and I admit Im also an addict but in a good farmer way. At least from those games Ill be able to know how to plant crops and raise animals by myself. Am I being defensive already? Haha...

I dont know why but I just dont like games that my husband play. Actually, its a riot game. A kind of game in which network of players interact with each other to achieve goals and missions. Its a game where there is fighting and killing. That is why they called it a riot game. They even purchase some items online for their characters. Thats how people play this game. Buying items for their characters or for their champions. They even use ventrilo device in order for them to talk freely to each other similar to a telephone or a conference call.

My husband loves to play this kind of game because according to him its his stress reliever and I allow him from playing because its his outlet from the occasional bad day from work. But despite all these, he knows when to stop and doesnt neglects household chores. Even when tired from work he plays too much without getting enough rest. This is another sign of addiction that I noticed from my husband.

While sometimes losing a battle can even result from anger or even worst depression. I thank him for not neglecting his family and even his 7month old baby. He even takes care of DJ while playing. Multitasking while playing. Kissing me on a victorious battle is one way that he feels good about the fulfillment he made. And sometimes angry or feels depress when someone killed his champion. Haha...sorry bhe!

His online gaming status, "left hand baby - right hand mouse". So, is this enough proof that he is indeed one of the online gaming addicts? Haha...Just laughing it out!

The problem of these online gamers is they intend to neglect more of their important tasks such as work and other social activities. So, does this really mean that online gaming addiction is as much the same as substance addiction? I hope not. Studies shows more than 20 suicides from online gaming and also can lead to psychological disorders.

I have nothing against online gaming. I just want people to know that they have other important priorities other than this. They should set aside quality time for their families and only use their spare time on not so important activities such as this.

A Kind hearted Leo

Hollywood actor Leonardo Dicaprio just donated $1M to help those in need victims in Haiti. Who ever thought that an actor like him could do such a thing. I salute him for doing such generosity. He is such a good example to the Americans of helping those in need.

Other celebrities made their donations already. Leo was just the one of them. Celebrities like Jennifer Lopez, Sean puffy combs, Sandra Bullock also donated $1M as what Ive heard in the news. And even Leo's ex-girlfriend Giselle Bundchen also donated $1.5M

We still know that we are in good hands because of these people. They are God's way of taking care of us. They are angels in disguise. We shouldn't be worry if something happens to us because we all know there is one person who will be there for us and I know that God wont neglect us in times like this.

Me and myself

I always thought of straightening my hair but got no guts of doing it. Not to brag but I like the compliments Im getting with my curly hair. They always ask me if its natural and it is. My mama is curly and so is my papa.

Unfortunately, my mama tried to straightened my hair when I was a little kid but she wasn't that successful. Well, she was successful at first and loves the way I look. Until after a week it went back from straight to curly again. She paid a lot for that treatment and even chose the perfect salon just for me.

We cant have everything right? Nobody's perfect. We have to accept who we are and what we are made of. We have to thank God for everything he has given to us and even appreciates it even more. So, if you have something that others don't have just be thankful cause He made each and every individuals unique. Just like you and me.

Ive made some comparison on which one will look better. The curly or the straight one? You decide...

Sooo Spongy

My all time favorite cartoon character...hehe

A Sore toe

Its been a month now and its still swollen. Every time my toe will bump on to something it really hurts. I cant bare the pain and that's when I shouted. It is quite swollen on the inner side of the nail. Its like there's an infected-looking tissue that appeared to be growing from the inside.

I think I better take some antibiotics. I don't want to settle down with surgery. Its getting worst everyday. And its all so painful from the inside. I don't know if its an ingrown toenail or something else. The two big toes are very much different in size because my right toenail is bigger than my left toenail. So, I painted my nails with some red nail polish just to hide my big infected toenail.

As what Ive heard ingrown toenails are very common and might settle down without surgery. They suggested to take antibiotics and bathe the ingrown toenail in a lukewarm salty water. I will definitely try that one first to see if it really works. I have waited for months for this toenail to heal.

Thank god Im not wearing closed shoes cause if I do I would end up walking like a cripple.

Lazy morning

I feel sick today and got me a terrible tonsillitis. It was horrible. I cant speak very well and I feel very lazy and wanted to sleep the whole day, but I cant because I have a lot of chores to do. So, I rushed to find some medicine to relieve the pain Im into. And only to find out that my husband already bathed DJ downstairs. That is how thoughtful my husband is. I just love him for taking care of us.

I was exhausted yesterday and wasn't able to sleep very well. I have no idea why I got it until my husband said it was all because of carrying DJ the whole day. DJ just wouldn't sleep, so I have to carry him to let him sleep. DJ cried 3 times the whole night when we were asleep. We have no idea why until my husband woke up and let him sleep again.

I just hope and pray that he will sleep soundly tonight and the rest of the nights. It was a sleepless night for both me and my husband.

ABC's

I always wanted a nursery room for Dj. To let him be aware and familiar with ABC's and all educational stuff for babies. That's why I drew and cut some ABC's and pasted it on the wall. I want him to be familiar with the letters and numbers already at his age. I even bought a coloring book and prepared some pencils and crayons in case if hes interested already.
Eventhough my handwritings are bad, I hope he wont noticed until he grows up. I want him to be familiarized with those things already now that I know hes a bright and smart kid. I just know, I have no negative thoughts of him. Its always a positive attitude towards him. I even downloaded educational songs for him and always playing it every morning.
I also sung him ABC songs everytime I carry him. So, now I just made a nursery room for him. Just a pen and paper and its all so worth it.

Raining cats and dogs

Summer is near approaching but the rain is just terrible here. Its like summer has ended already. Come to think of it, typhoon Ondoy has just ended and now here comes another one. What happened to the sunny Cagayan de oro? Why is always raining here? Is there a typhoon we should be aware about? I hope not. I hope papa Jesus is not punishing us. Thats what I always think whenever there is a catastrophe happening. But I never lose hope.
Like what happened to Manila last year. Some areas were affected by the irremediable calamity. I think I better watch news as of now. I already missed a lot these days.

DJ's Monthly check-up

We went to our baby's monthly check-up yesterday and it went really well. Dj had his second shot, a hib shot for hepatitis. Dj didn't cried at all, he just shouted. Thats how brave my son is. He is healthy and fit according to his doctor. My husband keeps on taking pictures but the doctor didnt mind at all.

Whenever its time for check-up's I always have my list on what to ask his doctor. Like what vitamins the doctor will recommend and what vaccinations will be given. Thats how meticulous I am when it comes to my baby. I always want the best for him.

The doctor was amazed of Dj's developments. She said to take pictures on his developmantal milestones and I always have. Now, I know why mothers are so proud of their babies. And I am that mother. Its all so worth it to have a monthly check-up. Not only doctors monitor your baby's progress but also allows opportunities to have your questions and concerns addressed.

Big toy

We just bought a new walker for DJ the other day to help him develop more of his walking skills. He just loves moving around and never gets tired. The baby walker was just a lifesaver for me because now that I will no longer be afraid whenever he is playing and wander around the house.. I wont be afraid getting his head bump on the wall or even worst on the floor.

Now that he has a baby walker, he will improve his walking skills and will also strengthen his leg muscle which is important for all babies. Now every time Im doing chores, he keeps following me and just stares at what Im doing the whole time. Its like hes wondering what I am doing. He is curious in all sorts of things.

We bought a multipurpose baby walker. It will play different kinds of music every time you press every button. Music like twinkle little star, bingo and those educational music for babies.It also has a stopper which can also be a high chair for babies every time its feeding time.
We were very meticulous on what baby walker we wanted. We wanted a baby walker that is multipurpose and not just a play thing.

The baby walker is just what we always wanted. It has different kinds of colors for baby boys. We chose a baby walker that has his favorite colors like red and blue. We also bought letter stickers so that we can put his name on his walker. It is always happy days with my baby. Now that he has a big toy, I will no longer worry about his situation always.

Babbling talk

When my baby was only 3 month old, he sometimes babbles like mama and dada. Now that hes a 7 month old baby, he always babbles and even stares at me and say "mamam". At the time he will say that I already know what it is. Its time to drink his milk. He often say "baba", "dada" and "gaga".Whenever you imitate him, he will just smile at you and giggle.

My baby has a very powerful observation quality. He observes every conversation with much concentration. He even knows his name because whenever I start calling him he will smile at me and comes near me.

My baby observes every part of conversation we have and even observes our facial expressions. He tries to have a conversation with us through his mimic power, bablling talk and gurgling sounds. He is even excited whenever his mimic is given attention.

Its like he understands very well that we are trying to communicate with him. I really enjoyed my baby's company. He makes me laugh and I love him so much for every little thing he does.

A love that last

My mama and papa on their wedding day. Its very simple yet memorable wedding for both of them. I got this photo in my mom's keepsakes. It doesn't really matter if its a simple wedding as long as both of you love each other and promise to love in both happiness and in sadness.

Here you can see how old the photo was. Actually, they've been together for like 26 years old. I never imagine that they would actually make it. Some married couples ended up separating. But for my mama and papa they think of marriage as holy and promises should be kept.

When it comes to age, my mama is 10 years older than my papa. That's how my papa loved my mama. He doesn't care about the age and what people will think. My papa just loves my mama so much that he wont ever hurt her and will never even try to leave her. That's how much respect my papa have for my mama.

Its not the obligation that binds them. Its the ever lasting love they felt for each other. I can see when they quarrel that my papa will not even hurt my mama even if sometimes my mama nags. My father just listen and will keep away from the fighting.

I often thought that now I'm married will have that relationship that they have. I wonder if I can be like my mama. So strong yet knows how to make herself when to shut up. I also wonder if I and my husband could actually have that relationship that they have.
A relationship so strong yet so full of love. Im always grateful to have such loving parents. They always support me for the things I do. And ground me for the things they hate just like other parents normally do. If it weren't for them I wouldn't have a loving family and a cute son. I know they are disappointed with my educational status but theyre still there for me.

I remember my papa said that whenever I finish college he would be happy and not care whether he will die. That was just heartbreaking every time I remembered it. I hope that I made them happy with my son around. I know they are but I just hope and pray that my son will finish what I started. And not ended up just like me an will never experience what I have experience in the past. I wont allow that to happen because I will be good mom just like my mama.

I love you mama and papa! For me you are the greatest parents a daughter like me could ever have.

DJ's Toothless grins

Bonding with his tata.


His first cap.


The time when he was awake. I prepared a camera to see if he will smile when awake. And he did!


The stage when he actually rolled over. His first roll over @ 3 months.

Almost want to hug me...

DJ when he was still a month old. Imagine, he even smiles when he is asleep. Very cute indeed!


DJ @ 2 months...
DJ at 3 months, this was the stage when we found out that he likes to smile in camera. What a cute little baby... His cute little smile makes my day complete. And for me there's nothing cuter than my baby's smile. His smile takes my breath away.




DJ with his tata working...


Bonding with his mamala. His ever playful and favorite grandma.


DJ posing at the camera. Look how adorable he is...


He smiles whenever he sees himself in the mirror.

Ready to attend his first ever Christmas party!


First ever Christmas party with his tata.


Glances because he knows there's a camera...


Watching TV with his nana and tata...

Bonding with his tata again...


Smiling with his little mirror...

Bonding with his papalo and mamala...

His first stand...

Playing League of legends (online game) with his tata...


Giggling with his tata...


Playing peek a boo...

Just finished taking a bath.

DJ, sitting comfortably on his own and not only that hes a very fast crawler too. Its kinda hard and tiring now that he found his freedom to move around. But we always had fun...


There's nothing in this world that is so precious than my baby's smile. When he smile I smile more and it makes me proud that he actually made it this far. Its hard to believe that hes been with us for 7 months. How time flies. It seems just like yesterday he was just my cute newborn baby but now hes grown up.

He even likes to eat now that he is 7 months old. He likes to eat almost anything and everything. Right now he eats whatever he is given. I hope this will continue until he grows up. Because most babies now are pickiest eaters in the world.

Now that he is 7 months, I hope he will sleep through the night. Because usually he takes a nap for about 30 minutes and then wakes up. And then we repeat the cycle one more time. This happens everyday.

But despite all these, I am very patient and I always do my best for my family.